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"Just Try!" Our Parenting Mantra to Nurture Curiousity

Parenting is Always-Day 1 (yes, I know it's a corporate jargon). It's a non-stop learning and honestly, it can be exhausting and thrilling at the same time. But as a parent, I think it's our duty to equip them with all skills and all things for their future. So, I think it's important for our children to try and learn as much things as they can while we're still around. My parenting philosophy hinges on a simple phrase: "You try first. If you don't like it, you don't have to continue." This empowers children with autonomy, encourages them to explore, and diminishes the fear of failure.




Encouraging Exploration

Encouraging kids to try new things isn't about pushing them into uncomfortable situations but about guiding them to explore their own boundaries and interests. Here are some tips to foster this adventurous spirit:


1. Lead by Example

Children are incredibly observant and often mirror the behaviors they see. If they witness you trying new activities or facing challenges with a positive attitude, they're more likely to adopt the same approach. Whether it's tasting a new food or learning a new skill (or in my case, petting horses!), show them that it's okay to be a beginner.


2. Celebrate the Effort, Not Just the Outcome

Shift the focus from the result to the effort involved in trying. Celebrate their courage to step out of their comfort zone, regardless of the outcome. This mindset helps build resilience and the understanding that not every attempt leads to success, and that's perfectly okay.


3. Create a Safe Space for Trying (and Failing)

Make sure your child knows that your love and support aren't contingent on their successes. Emphasize that it's okay to make mistakes and that failure is often part of learning. A safe emotional environment encourages them to take risks and learn from their experiences.


4. Break It Down Into Smaller Steps

Sometimes, the fear of trying stems from the task seeming overwhelming. Breaking it down into manageable steps can make it seem more achievable. Celebrate each small victory to keep their morale high.


5. Use Encouraging Language

Words have power. Instead of saying, "Don't be scared," try framing it positively: "It's okay to feel scared, but why don't we try first? If you don't like it, we don't have to continue." This acknowledges their feelings while also encouraging them to move forward.


The Ripple Effect of Trying

The impact of encouraging your child to try new things extends far beyond the immediate situation. It cultivates a mindset of growth, resilience, and curiosity that will serve them well into adulthood.


Long-term Benefits:

  • Problem-Solving Skills: Trying and sometimes failing teaches children to look for solutions and think creatively.

  • Confidence: Each new challenge they overcome builds their self-esteem and belief in their own capabilities.

  • Adaptability: Being open to new experiences prepares them to adapt to change, a valuable skill in every aspect of life.


Navigating the Challenges

Encouraging your child to try new things isn't without its challenges. There will be resistance, there will be fears, and yes, there will be failures. But each of these moments is an opportunity for growth, both for the child and the parent.


Personal Reflection: There was a time when my son wanted to quit the piano after a particularly challenging lesson. I reminded him of our mantra: "You try first. If you don't like, you don't have to continue." But this time, I added, "Let's see what's making it hard and see if we can try a new thing." Together, we found a new practice routine that rekindled his interest. It was a lesson in persistence, adaptability, and the value of tackling problems from new angles.


The Joy of Discovery

At the heart of this philosophy is the joy of discovery. Each new experience, whether it ends in success or failure, is a journey into the unknown. It's about learning who we are, what we like, and what we're capable of. And the joy in that discovery is one of the most beautiful aspects of human experience.


The encouragement to "just give it a try" is more than a nudge towards new experiences; it's a foundation for a life lived fully and fearlessly. It's about teaching our children—and reminding ourselves—that the world is full of possibilities waiting to be explored. So, the next time your child (or you) stands at the edge of a new adventure, remember the power of trying. Who knows? It might just lead to a new passion, a hidden talent, or a memorable journey. The magic lies in the willingness to take that first step.

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